Friday, February 11, 2011

hello blogger :D

hello hello hello. im very excited:)
my blog punya age 2 days today :) and i have 10 followers and 113 sekodeng peoples :)
thanks people because read my blog :D
and if you all feel free to comment and feel free to become my followers i become more excited .oh la laaaa.
today entry. being single is better than married?
who agree with me?haha. actually this is my topic for forum and as usual syida and me are in same group and we must make a research about single person.

here are the advantages of being single.

1: More freedom and independence
 Being single means you have more freedom. You answer to no one. If you’re single, you don’t have to let anyone know when you decide to go somewhere. It allows for more spontaneity in your life. If you want to take a weekend road trip, you can make that decision on the spur of the moment. 

2: More control over your time
 We live in a busy society. You probably hear people complaining that they never have enough time, all while scribbling their plans for the next three months into their Palm Pilot. These people probably aren’t single. When you’re single, you may have more time for yourself and things that you like to do. You can set your own schedule. Being single may give you more time for hobbies, relaxation, being with friends and family, and so on.

3: More control over your money
 In addition to time, relationships also require money, and a lot of it. Being single gives you full financial freedom. You will be in control of where every dollar you spend goes. Guys, think of the money you’ll save by not having to pay for overpriced dinners and movies, and buying all kinds of presents for birthdays, Valentine's Day, Christmas, and the 11-week anniversary of the third date. Being single allows you to spend money that you have on yourself with no guilt. 

4: Not having to tolerate another’s annoying habits
 Let’s face it – all of us have quirks about ourselves that someone else finds annoying. Being single frees you from this issue. A single person doesn’t have to listen to someone snore all night while hogging the blankets. 

5: No emotional roller coaster rides
 Being single allows you to stabilize your emotions. When a person is in a relationship, especially when it is just starting, your emotions can go completely out of whack. Your mind can go a mile a minute constantly thinking things like, “Does s/he still like me?”, “Did I say the right thing?”, “What should I do now?”, “When should I call next?” The list goes on and on. It’s enough to make a person go bonkers with all these thoughts running rampant. In addition, being single means that you won’t have to worry about going through a heart-wrenching breakup. Once you’ve become a successful single, you will appreciate being able to be emotionally relaxed.

6: Ability to become aware of who you are
 Being single can give you a deeper awareness of who you really are - not someone as defined by a relationship. During the initial stages of a relationship, you try to make yourself look as good as possible to impress the other person, and often find yourself saying and doing things you normally wouldn’t do. Being single allows you to be yourself and develop who you really are.

These are just some of the advantages to being single. As you progress into becoming a successful single, you will find more and more advantages.  Once you move past the “grass is greener on the other side” way of thinking, you will then be ready to make the most of being single.

John Wooden said, 

“Things turn out best for people who make the best out of the way things turn out.”
 so all single women or men out there, dont worry if you are single. see being single also have their advantages :D


  1. weyh..follow blog aku =)
    nice entry btw..dapat menaikkan semangat orang single!haha

  2. eh sebu. aku try follow semalam.tapi ade problem sikit.
    nape ntah error.okay nanti aku follow ok :)